So we {had} to drive down the mountain to the stinkin' hot desert for a couple days. It couldn't be avoided.
Did I mention that we're knee deep in the "driver's permit" season with Livy? Oh yes we are. Knee deep into wearing a hole in the place where the brake
should be on passenger's floor board. Knee deep into pretending that gasp was really a yawn.
Knee deep into an average 3-4 tries to park the the car in a public parking lot while simultaneously holding my breath through each attempt.
Knee deep into re-accessing our life insurance policies.
Second time around the parental obligation of walking my child through this right of passage, and I will say that I think... I think... just maybe... I'm better at it this time around.
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| Hands firmly in control at 2 and 10 o'clock! |
I will sadly admit, that when Sunny was learning to drive,
I was a yeller. And a screamer. Really loud too! In my own defense, I was really flippin'
scared for my life when we were teaching her how to drive! I had every intention of being the calm and cool parent, sitting in the passenger seat and encouragingly saying things like, D
on't forget, left right left, dear. And
Don't get in the blind spot of that semi truck. Instead I was white-knuckled, shielded-my-eyes-from-the-inevitable-collision terrified! Yes, I will admit now that at some point while teaching Sunny to drive, I actually discovered it somewhat quelled my fear to occasionally cover my eyes while she was driving! Great teaching technique, hu? So proud of that one!
I found myself screaming things like, Oh dear Lord, let us all be wearing underwear! And Please little girl, jump back farther from the side of the street! And I
found myself considering the feasibility of jumping over the center console, sitting in her lap, and taking control of the car.
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| Seat belt secure! |
This time around, it's most likely Livy's natural good driving skills. She's one that inherently prone to err on the side of caution... God love her! But I can't help but dream that maybe, just perhaps, not only am I a better driver's ed teacher, but more also better able to remain calm during
life-threatening stressful situations?
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| An iced latte? No hands on the wheel? |
'Cause remaining calm sends a better message, right?
And allows her to hear her own thoughts?
And allows me to tell her what to do in a manner where she can actually understand what I'm saying?
Perhaps my experiences teaching Sunny to drive, has given me wisdom?
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| Text messaging while driving? Oh no! |
Ya, it's likely just because Livy's just a naturally good driver.
And in my advanced maternal age I don't want to spike my blood pressure.
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OK, truth be told, she wasn't driving in any of those photos. We had to stop for construction for about 30 min. |